Years ago, fathers were made to wait in the hallways and waiting rooms until they heard how their partners and babies were doing. Times have changed and now fathers are expected to be very involved. They have to try and remember all of the labor terms, medical procedures, positions and massages, techniques for a more comfortable labor as well as how to keep mom breathing and relaxed, all without leaving the mother’s side.     A doula does not take the place of the daddy. She is there to support the mother and father. Studies have even shown that it can help bring a couple closer and make the birth more intimate. With doula support, fathers tend to stay more involved with their partner rather than pull away in times of stress.